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HOW TO STOP FEELING OUT OF CONTROL AROUND FOOD

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It hasn’t fully hit me yet that it is 2018. This is the year that I turn 30 and all my life 30 seemed like this far away land that was so very much off in the distance future.

Growing up, I felt like I was sold this dream or idea about what life was supposed to look like at this age. I would have this fabulous career, a handsome af husband, a fancy home and probably a kid or two. That life seems very much off in the distance future too.

And although my life does not resemble the above I am still A-ok to be turning the big three-oh. Getting older doesn’t occur like a bad thing to me even though our society idolizes the youth, or at least looking youthful.



Luckily my daily vitamin-C drink and leafy greens at every meal has helped in that department but being young was challenging, you know what I mean?

The insecurity, the self-doubt, feeling uncomfortable in my skin. That eating disorder thing. Ugh.

Don’t get me wrong, all that stuff aside I LOVED my twenties and my whole life, really. Sure it had its challenges but thats life and there really was magic in it all. My experiences, good and bad, shaped me in to the human I am today and for that I am very grateful.

I feel like a beautiful, resourceful, full of life MF woman who is living life on her terms and that is pretty cool. The journey here wasn’t without falls and bruises but it was worth it and there is no looking back at this point.

But what does this rant about being 30 have to do with this soup?

Nothing except that I made it to comply with the Whole 30 challenge and #Wu30 collective on Instagram. So yeah that’s it, they have the number in common. I guess the fact that I am reaching a new decade is on my mind a lot lately.

For those unfamiliar, Whole 30 is an elimination diet, but fuck do I hate the word diet. It’s a 30 day program that eliminates all triggering foods. Foods that contribute to inflammation, autoimmune disorders, chronic illness, weight gain, brain fog and so on.

Although I feel really amazing in my body I have always wanted to experience what it would feel like to eliminate grains, soy and legumes. These do not appear to be problematic for me, I feel really good almost every day, but so many health experts I respect, like Dave Asprey, Dr. Gundry and Dr. Perlmutter have mountains of scientific data that point to them being problematic for some and arguably all humans. So although I think that I feel amazing, could I feel better? It’s possible.

When I was in my early teens and twenties I generally always felt awful, i.e. headaches, bloated, low energy, pain in my joints but I was so used to feeling awful that it was normal. That’s just how I felt every day and I didn’t know the difference until I started experimenting with food.

This is a lot of what my upcoming book Body Wisdom is about and how you can discover how to feel incredible too.

So although my current normal is pretty freaking great, is there another level that I am just not present or aware of yet?

I guess we will see in the next 30 days.

I feel its important to mention since I talk so much about food freedom and eating disorders that I am not trying to lose weight and I am not restricting calories at all. This is my experimenting, Bio-Hacking, as they call it, with the connection between what I eat and how I feel.

So this soup! I made it to comply with the guidelines of Whole 30. Woot Woot!

The recipe has an optional ingredient that makes it not Whole 30 compliant but does make it taste better in my opinion. Feel free to use it if you like.

I hope you enjoy it. Virtual group hug.

Xo, C


INGREDIENTS

Serves 4-6, 15 min prep, 35 min cook


FOR THE BROTH:

  • 8 cups water

  • 4 cups vegetable broth

  • 6-8 2-inch long lemongrass stalks

  • 12 slices of fresh ginger, peeled and sliced into thin quaters

  • 6 garlic cloves, minced

  • 1 shallot, chopped

  • 1 yellow onion, chopped

  • 1/2 cup carrots, shredded or diced

  • 1 tbsp crushed red pepper

  • 2 limes juiced

  • 3 tsp salt, to taste

  • 1 15-oz can of full fat coconut cream

  • 1-2 tbsp coconut aminos

  • Optional Add In:

  • 2 tbsp coconut sugar

FOR THE SOUP:

  • 5 cups crimini mushrooms, cut in half

  • 2 radishes, sliced and cut into bite sized pieces

  • 1 cup chopped cilantro

  • 1/2 cup green onions

  • 4 zucchini spiralized into noodles

  • GARNISH:

  • cilantro, green onion, red pepper, lime

DIRECTIONS:

Bring a large pot of the water and vegetable broth to a boil. Meanwhile prep all your ingredients as stated above.

Bruise the lemongrass stalks by pushing on them with the flat side of a knife. be careful not to cut yourself.

Once the water is boiling add in the lemongrass, ginger, garlic, Let boil for 10 minutes.

Then add in the shallot, carrots, red pepper and lime juice and toss in the whole rind into the soup. Add in the salt and lower to a simmer.

At this point taste the broth and see how it is coming along. Does it need more lime juice, more red pepper, more salt? Adjust it.

Then add in the coconut cream 1/4 cup at a time and taste as you go. I ended up adding in the whole can but I reccommend going slow and adjusting it to your taste. Then add in the coconut aminos.

Using a spoon, get out the lime rinds before adding in the other ingredients. Toss those in the trash or compost.

If you are not following whole 30 consider adding coconut sugar if you desire to give it an extra kick of sweetness. Not necessary but oh soooo good.

Let the broth simmer for another 5 or so minutes to develope in flavor. Then add in the mushrooms, radish, cilantro and green onion. You dont want to over cook the veggies so once they are soft enough to eat, about 3-5 minutes, turn off the soup.

Spiralize your zoodles and divide amongst bowls. Ladle the soup and lots of broth over the zoodles.

Garnish if desired and dig in.

Store the zoodles in a different container from the soup if there is some left over. Otherwise they get to thin and soggy and are not as enjoyable to eat in my opinion.



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oh hello babes! Can you believe that 2018 is just a couple days away? like woah.

Anyways, I've really been loving turmeric recently. Anything anti-inflammatory but specifcally turmeric. Not only do I like the way it tastes and love the color but it has loads of health benefits.

Turmeric contains a compound known as curcumin that has powerful anti-inflammatory properties. Although acute short term inflammation helps the body fight off invaders, long term chronic inflammation does not. It can wreak some serious havoc on us human beings.

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In fact several studies (1, 2, 3) now show that low-level chronic inflammation is a major player in almost every western disease including heart disease, metabolic syndrome, Alzheimers, cancer and other degenerative conditions. Yikes for real.

Its why I strive to eat an alkaline promoting diet.

Not only that but it is a powerful antioxidant that protects us from free radical damage that contributes to aging and disease. You know how much I like to slow down aging by supporting the bodies natural abilities. Turmeric is great for that.

Curcumin and turmeric are also linked to increased brain function, decreased depression, and mitigating arthritis.

Sign me up for that.

It is a really easy spice to encorporate into you diet either by adding it to soups, stir fry's, golden milk or bulletproof coffee.

The benefits are much more effective when paired with black pepper and fat, like coconut oil or avocado oil so be sure to combine them when eating.

Now that you know why I am obsessed with turmeric you will understand why you need to make this soup now.

Its so dang good. like GOOD good. I've eaten 3 bowls in the last 2 days and there are still leftovers. Luckily this is one of those recipes that gets better the longer it sits so don't be afraid of making a big batch. You'll eat it, trust me.

INGREDIENTS:

  • 2 tbsp coconut oil

  • 1 large yellow onion

  • 4 garlic cloves, peeled and minced

  • 2-3 inch knob of fresh turmeric, peeled and grated

  • 4 cups golden cauliflower florets, chopped in bite sized pieces

  • 1 delicata squash, de-seeded and chopped in bite sized pieces, skins on

  • 2 tsp cinnamon

  • 1/2-1 tsp cayenne (use less if you don't like a lot of spice, but I love it and think it rounds out the flavor)

  • 1 tsp freshly cracked black pepper

  • 2 tbsp hemp seeds

  • 4 cups vegetable broth

  • 1 lemon, juiced

  • 1- 15oz can of garbanzo beans, rinsed and drained

  • pink salt to taste (I used about a tbsp total while seasoning through out the cooking process)

Optional But recommended Garnishes:

sliced green onion, crushed red pepper, micro greens, hemp seeds

DIRECTIONS:

Prep all ingredients as stated above.

In a large soup pot over medium high heat melt coconut oil. Once hot add in the onion and cook for 3-5 minutes stirring often. Season with pink salt.

Then add in the garlic and turmeric. Stir for 30 seconds and season with another pinch of salt.

Add in the cauliflower and squash, stir for 1 minute.

Then add in the spices, cinnamon, black pepper and cayenne. Stir to coat.

Next add in the hemp seeds and a pinch of salt. Then add in the vegetable broth and lemon juice.

Bring to a boil then lower to a simmer. Transfer 3/4 of the soup into the vitamix and blend on high until smooth.

Transfer back into the pot and pour in the garbanzo beas.

Mix well and then taste test it. Does it need any more seasoning and spices? How about salt? Awesome, now enjoy a big bowl and put on your desired toppings.

xo

Cara


ALSO, if you have been loving my recipes then you I am so excited to share that my first ever cookbook Vegan Buddha Bowls is now available for order.







By the age of 13 I started to have body dissatisfaction.

The pressure for women to look a certain entered my conscience leading to an obsession with thinness. I didn't know the term thigh gap at the time but I was very concerned with my own.

I was not overweight as a child, in fact my slender frame was something I was often complimented on. You'd think that would make me feel good about myself but it fueled insecurity and a desire to be model thin. It actually made me more self-conscience and at the same time created a link between self-worth and size.

By age 14 I was restricting calories and by age 15 I was on my first official diet. I chose Atkins.

There was no loyalty to it though.

I used to always get seduced by the next latest and greatest one. As soon as I heard all about its miracle workings and how it would leave me feeling great and with the body of my dreams I willingly pledged allegiance to it.

There is always the same promise with every new diet. This one will be the last one, solve your weight-loss woes and make you love your body.

Over the years I had compounded the idea of happiness with having the perfect body. What I thought having the perfect body and losing the “weight” would give me was confidence and peace of mind. I thought it would set me free.

I thought it would give me a different life.

In her book Women Food and God, Geneen Roth explains that “"even a wildly successful diet is still a failure because inside the new body is the same sinking heart. Spiritual hunger can never be solved on the physical level."

The beauty of my obsession with weight and food was that I escaped the madness of the world. I got to overlook the emptiness in my heart and focus on the fullness of my thighs.

But the size of our thighs does not correlate with the fullness we feel in our hearts. No matter what size we are, our fulfillment in life isn’t a function of gaining or losing weight.

We have bodies but we are not our bodies.

Weight loss isn’t truly the goal. Sure it would be nice to have a banging body, don’t get me wrong, but feeling loved, feeling like enough, feeling like we are living out our lives purpose.... that is so much more fulfilling than any number on the scale.

So what is it that we think weight loss will give us access to? If we look past the desire for a smaller body and into our heart what is really there?

We always want access to something. We want to experience living a life we think we can’t have because we have weight to lose.

We bolt from the feelings of loneliness, inadequacy, boredom, anger, regret, vulnerability, accountability, pain, and acceptance and obsess over food and weight.

Our joints might hurt, we have headaches, we’re fatigued, have brain fog, our clothes don’t fit, we can’t walk upstairs without getting winded, we might physically be miserable because of the extra weight, but if you’ve spent the last 5, 10, 15, 30 years obsessing over 5, 10, 15, 20 extra pounds, there is something else going on.

And it has absolutely nothing to do with the weight.

I was hypnotized by the idea that a perfect body meant the perfect life. It took me years to untie the knot between the two in my mind.

This idea allowed me to not take responsibility for my life. As long as I was the victim to my body I stayed stuck in my comfort zone. This idea allowed me an excuse to not put in the work. To not put my heart on the line.

It’s much safer to focus on a problem like our weight instead of going after what we really want. Admitting what we really want means we have to risk not getting it and that is really scary and vulnerable.

There is always a reward in it for us to keep the cycle of yo-yo dieting, binging and purging and emotional eating alive.

But what there is to discover is that the reward is so small in proportion to the impact of what it’s costing us in our life.

It costed me so much freedom, joy and self-expression. My longing to look different made me small. It dimmed my inner light so much that eventually I lost myself.

What I didn’t understand was that dieting to find the life I wanted was like drinking salt water to quench thirst. It seemed like a good plan but in fact it only made me thirstier. The more I dieted the more things I found to fix.

Years went by before I realized that what I was doing wasn’t yielding the desired results. My spiritual cup could not be filled up with physical perfection. Confidence and self-acceptance was not in size 2 jeans, neither was love. The fullness of my life was not in opposition to the fullness in my belly.

The next time you decide you are going to start a diet ask yourself what it is that you are hoping to get out of it.

What is on the other side of the weight-loss goal?

Answer the question “I want to lose weight because…”

Any reason other than a health reason is not on the other side of weight-loss.

Do we want to be more confident, happier, more self-expressed, find the man/women of our dreams, prove we are good enough, worthy of love, get a job promotion…

Shift your focus and attention there. Take the pressure off of the weight and the food and give yourself permission to want those things now no matter your size. You deserve everything you want. You are worthy of abundance, authenticity, love and acceptance right now.

"let your light be big, don't shrink from it. Take this light and shine it in life's dark places." Cleo Wade

My darkest dark gave me my brightest light.

I help others, just like you, find food freedom and body wisdom by connecting them to what they really want out of life. I facilitate their discovery into how to eat to nourish their body such that the rest of their life can flourish.

Together we create a link between the life they desire and specific actions to attain it.

Xo

Cara

#FoodFreedomBodyPeace

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